For as extended as he could speak, Mikey had been demanding a baby brother. We assumed it would be humble to add another after getting wedded, purchasing a home, and having Mikey.

However, we sought the help of a fruitfulness specialist after more than a year of trying, month after month of bad test results, and heartbreaking questions from Mikey.

I had operation to remove fibroids in September of 2016. We eventually received a positive test in December of that year, on Mikey’s fifth birthday. With tears of joy, we told our families.


I began to hemorrhage at 11 weeks. Our worst fear that our baby was deceased was authenticated by an ultrasound. Trisomy 13 was explored through testing, and we found out it was a boy. Only as an angel did Mikey have his baby brother.


We obvious we were happy as three, put our tactics on hold, and moved. However, I had another positive consequence from a test I took in August 2017. We were cautious this time. We found out at 23 weeks that our baby might not live due to severe intrauterine growth restriction. We decided to fight. After expenditure weeks in the hospital, our little boy, Jake, weighing only 1 pound 12 ounces, was brought by doctors at 30 weeks and 6 days.

bent up to wires and monitors, Jake spent sixty-two days in the concentrated care unit. Mikey wanted to hold his brother, but he rapidly picked up the NICU routine. He became the first sibling to perform skin-to-skin with his brother at Beth Israel’s NICU on March 17, 2018, a moment that underwired their association.

Mikey became Jake’s comforter and guard when he eventually repaid home. These days, our boys embrace up in our bed at the start of each day. My spouse and I frequently remark that we wish Jake would look at us the way he looks at Mikey since of their charming bond.