I was a perfect person later I got to know that I got this disability. I wasn’t always living with a disability. One day, life changed so abruptly that everything I had planned vanished in an instant. I was that person who always plan something good like treaveling enjoying make moment memorable but my all dreams suddenly change into my worst nightmare. I couldn’t answer simple questions about the future, and even thinking about tomorrow felt impossible. The life I had imagined that being active, raising my family, following my dreams was gone. Everything that I planned for my own future was like vanish or you can say cursed the most worst nightmare. But every morning, I made the conscious choice to get up and face the day, no matter how hard it was.
At first, I was overwhelmed with anger and frustration. Tasks that had once been simple brushing my teeth, washing my hair, even feeding myself suddenly became monumental challenges. Emotionally and physically, I felt trapped in a body that didn’t feel like mine. Before the accident, I was a mom to a lively little boy, full of energy and curiosity. I loved doing all the “boy mom” things running, playing, exploring, just being present in his life. My husband and I had dreamed of expanding our family, imagining a home full of children and laughter. But now seeing myself weak make me more broken there was a lots of plans that we would have a loving family like other have. That dream felt impossible after I was told I could no longer carry a child.
Then, against all odds, we found out I was pregnant. Doctors warned us of the risks: my body was fragile, I had bionic implants, and my health conditions made this an unprecedented pregnancy. The statistics were grim. But we believed this child was meant to be. My faith gave us strength, and we decided to fight alongside our baby.
The pregnancy was grueling. I spent months in the hospital, and when our son arrived prematurely at 29 weeks, he went straight to the NICU while I recovered in the ICU. Every day was a battle for survival. The doctors and nurses became more than caregivers they were our lifeline. Their dedication and kindness gave us hope when hope seemed impossible. Against all odds, our baby survived, and we came home together, forever changed by the experience.
Life didn’t become easier after that. I live with progressive health issues, chronic pain, and multiple bionic implants that keep me alive. Most of the time, I am confined to a wheelchair, and I recently discovered I am legally blind due to a hereditary condition. Simple mobility and independence are daily challenges. Yet, through all of this, my children and husband give me purpose. My boys my three amazing children help me with daily tasks. It’s not what I envisioned as a mother, but it has deepened our bond and taught them resilience and compassion. I cried feel happy to when I see my husband and son doing efforts for me they give me task to make my body warm and little bit active.
Animals have become a vital part of my healing. Our home includes primates, horses, and a loyal service dog. They give me strength, joy, and a way to connect with the world beyond my limitations. I also homeschool my children, pursue a master’s degree online, and run a business from home. These activities keep my mind active, my spirit engaged, and remind me that life can still be full, even when it looks very different than I expected. After all I realize what if we suffer from hardship but remember we have our own family who they support us in every bad and happy moment.
Living with a disability has taught me to focus on what I can do rather than what I cannot. I have learned that detours in life, even painful ones, can lead to growth and unexpected beauty. Some days are harder than others. Some days I struggle with fear, grief, or frustration. But I keep moving forward because I refuse to let my circumstances define my life. My mission is to show my children, and anyone who might need hope, that even in the most challenging situations, you can find strength, purpose, and joy.
Life may have taken an unexpected path, but it hasn’t taken my determination. Every day, I choose to live fully, love deeply, and embrace the journey, no matter how difficult it may be. I refuse to simply survive I want to thrive.
