We often see people prioritizing materialism over the little things to define love. However, for Bailey Anne Vincent, it was the opposite. Grand gestures that require hours of planning and hundreds of dollars make you feel special, but when you see people noticing the little stuff and doing actions to make you happy, you realise that this is what life is all about.
Bailey states that when her partner brings coffee to the rehearsals and knows when Bailey would need the perfect salty Milky Way, he grabs them late at night, and the bagels and crackers keep reminding her of home. The gestures might look like everyone does and experiences this, but this is the rare and real form of love. Anyone can tell you how much they can do for you, but it takes a lot to implement things. Thought and consistent love always win, and this does not have to be questioned.
While she thinks of new dreams, he is the one to step forward to support her without any questions or doubts. He is sure Bailey can do it, and Bailey humorously said that it has been a stressor for him, as her partner believes in her more than herself. We all have tens of daily tasks, yet he chooses to pause all the work and watch her dance. He watches Bailey with sparkly eyes, and every time, it feels like it’s the first time he watches her.
Is it not lucky and a good fate that love does not fade away even after a decade with the same person? Bailey’s partner chooses her every day without any hesitation and reassures her that Bailey is the only person he will ever want, without her questioning!
However, Bailey also mentioned that where there is immeasurable love, there are days the couple fights, and she has countless messages on her phone when she is on the verge of breaking down, so she messages her best friend. She wants people to know how it is good to be delusional, but love isn’t just rose-coloured. You need to let go of so many compromises to settle things down. Love is neither perfect nor will it ever be, but the beauty is that every part of your partner needs fixing, and you do it with all your heart!
It is all about making things work out at the end of the day, no matter how bumpy the road gets. Every other day is messy and chaotic, but love teaches you the art of making peace in the chaos. Although Bailey, an emotional woman, ends up doubting, he knows how to handle it all, no matter what the fight and frustrations are about. He makes sure Bailey knows how remarkable her presence is in their house and his life, and she is all that he has, so no matter how many flaws and the messy corners are, they never opt to give up!
Bailey penned her story and emotions for the people waiting for this love. She has given the golden advice not to settle, as when you are patient, you end up with someone who fights with you but never steps back when it is time to fight for you. It’s the person you find peace in and the one who makes you feel empowered. Love and loving someone is not a perfect journey, but when you make time for them on the busiest days, do anything to see them smile, and wait for them, it makes it all worth it. Make sure to find the love that is worth waiting for!
