Even though it only lasted an hour, the lessons I learned that day will stay with me forever. I’ve faced almost every challenge in my work lost equipment, 16-hour shifts, injuries but nothing ever affected me emotionally like this one wedding.
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On Labour Day afternoon, at 2:45 p.m., a friend called me with heartbreaking news. Nina, a 19-year-old bride, had been told she wouldn’t survive the night. Her wedding to Joey, originally planned for another day, had been moved up to 5 p.m. The original photographer couldn’t make it, so my friend asked if I could step in. I didn’t realize then how much that choice would change me.
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I dropped everything and drove to St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital. Nina was too weak to walk to the chapel, so the ceremony was held right in her pediatric intensive care room.
To my surprise, the room wasn’t gloomy. Instead, it was full of joy, teasing, and laughter. Joey and Nina had known each other since childhood, met at camp, fallen in love, and dreamed of growing old together. Cancer had stolen their future, but their love was still very much alive.
The room was simple hospital monitors, medical gear, and photos from their travels replaced the usual flowers. Nina lay in bed, dressed in her wedding gown, a bouquet resting beside her. Joey stood close, ready to support her.
I can’t remember every word of their vows because my heart was pounding, but I’ll never forget how they looked at each other a quiet love that needed no words.
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Nina’s final wish was simple: to be a happy wife, surrounded by those she loved most. They cried, laughed, and even playfully smeared frosting on each other’s noses.
The day before, I was lost in my own sadness, overwhelmed by grief after losing my father. But Nina’s strength in that hospital room shook me awake.
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A friend later told me, “Whatever is weighing you down, it isn’t worth it. Live for those who can’t.” At 19, Nina was living more fully than most of us ever do. Never take anything for granted.
Nina’s courage and joy healed me in ways I can’t fully explain. I went to take photos at a wedding. I left with a new way to live.
